And then there are relationships.

Relationships...
They are somewhat complicated.
They take time.
It's opening up and giving yourself and your whole heart to another person.
Letting someone else have that part of you, letting someone see all of you, and who you really are. Hoping that they don't hurt you.
Hoping they don't take you for granted and take advantage of what you gave them and let them have of you.
You should always care for a person/people.
True love is caring for someone more than yourself.
Putting them in front of you.
Just wanting there happiness and hoping yours comes along with theirs.
Hoping that if you want them to be happy, they do the same for you, so you both end up happy.
I guess that only works if both people in the relationship care enough for the other more than themselves. If not, you just have confusion and chaos.
Finding that happy medium between two friends, between friendships, and when finding love is hard.
Someone is always going to be hurt.
Someone will always feel as if they did wrong.
And who knows... Maybe both sides will feel heart broken and sadness.
Finding that one person to give all your love to and trying to make a shot at true happiness and love is unbelievably hard. So when do you know to try?
You don't.
You try and you fall.
You stumble and get back up.
Hoping that one of these times that one person comes around.
that one person that helps overcome all the heart ache and all the trials.
Hoping to care for him and him care for her.
Hoping to fall in love and live together forever.
Hoping to start a family and a life of their own.
We all try, we keep trying.
But in the mean time...
Always have enough courage to put yourself first again.
To find yourself and try again.
Hoping for better results next time.
Knowing you learned a little more.
You are a little more experienced, and can keep trying to be the best you can be for you.
and one day, for someone else as well.

Love,
Madi Louise.