Monday, May 23, 2011

I love you. I love you not.



Its interesting that the one thing/phrase that you can never say to much of, but can never say enough of.
Is “I love you”.
The words I love you can mean so many different things. 
But then again it means one thing. 
I guess there are just different meanings to that one simple, pure, amazing phrase. 
Love... love is complex. Love is from the heart. 
It is genuine and sincere. It shows that you care. It shows that loving side of you. 
It can be easy and natural to say. Sometimes it just comes out. It feels so right.
But on the other hand. You can feel it, feel is so strongly and have the hardest time saying it. And showing how you really feel. 
It 's not because you don’t really feel that way.
I guess some people just have a harder time expressing themselves.
For fear of not being loved back.
Love. It has to be given and received. 
To be loved.. you must love.
love others, love yourself. 
You should never be afraid of loving. Never be afraid of being loved back. 
You’ll never know unless you try and sometimes trying is unnecessary. 
It just starts to happen, comes to be as you get to know someone. It’s not hard to love anyone.
Everyone has those special talents, abilities, qualities that you can’t help but love. 
There is always something to love in everybody. 
That's probably why it is important to look for the good in everyone. right?
Then you think.. trying to love someone when your afraid to love... is not easy. 
But why would you be afraid of such a great thing? Maybe because it can go wrong..
Because it is such a great and powerful thing, you really have to work at it and know the pain, the bad, a taste of what went wrong. 
To know how the right feels, the truth. The true feeling of so called love. 
You never want to go back to that feeling of being lost, of being heart broken, of loosing and hurting that person you had such deep feelings for. 
So why would you ever want to go back and try again? 
If you have that chance of going wrong, of messing up again. 
Of having those feelings rush back to you. 
Cause the next time it could hit harder and bring back the emotions of the past. 
But I guess we should always remember that you must move on and you must try again. 
Why? because if you didn't take that chance, that risk. You could miss out on the opportunity of being with the love of your life for forever. 
It is better to try, then to not try at all. It is better to try, then to miss out on that opportunity cause once you finally get it...
I promise you. It will take over all the bad experiences you have ever had. 
It will be like it never happened. 
It won’t hurt as bad cause you’ll have that one person that really loves you to wash away all the past. 
You’ll forget that you ever knew and saw the bad side of love. 
because the right side, will be better than you had ever imagined and the best thing is.. 
You’ll know when it feels so right, because of the past that you have had. 
and to feel that with the right person, I'm sure it feels like your whole world just came together, that all your prayers have been answered. 
All that you have been striving for, trying to overcome, has finally come. That ship has sailed.. finally. 
Love is desired over all things. Without love you are nothing, you have nothing. No one to fall back on, no one to talk to. Love connects with so many different things: compassion, kindness, caring, helping.. They all mesh together. Love is inside each and everyone of those words. Love is inside you, so why don't you let it out? Share it with the world. You never know who’s broken heart you will fix. Whose hearts you will touch. Whose lives you will influence. If you don't go out there and share those great feelings deep inside of you. You’ll never know what you’ll be missing.. who you could be caring for, giving kindness too. Who you could be helping and learning for yourself what compassion is. What love is... :) <3

Love, Madeliene. 

-I write this... claiming that I honestly no nothing about love. 
This is just what I hope love will one day be for me. 
We'll see.

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